Morning Masturbation: Starting Your Day With Orgasmic Energy
Nina Hartley shares how to start your day with confidence and pleasure through mindful morning masturbation. A ritual for energy, joy, and self-love.
A Guide to Erotic Touch: From Fingertips to Full-Body Meltdown
Nina Hartley shares techniques for erotic touch that build trust, awaken sensation, and melt the body with care. From feather-light to firm and focused.
Oral Sex with Enthusiasm: How to Love It, Give It, and Ask for It
Nina Hartley shares how to enjoy giving and receiving oral sex with confidence, care, and curiosity. Real talk, real pleasure, all genders welcome.
Anal Play for First-Timers: Tips for a Smooth (and Slippery) Start
Curious about anal play? Nina Hartley shares beginner-friendly tips for safe, sexy, and shame-free backdoor exploration. Start slow and feel good.
What Is the Urethral Sponge, and Why Should I Care
Discover the truth about the urethral sponge, often known as the G-spot. Learn where it is, how to stimulate it, and how this internal pleasure zone can lead to deeper orgasms, emotional release, and female ejaculation. This guide offers anatomy, technique, and sex advice for vulva-owners and their lovers.
Female Ejaculation: Yes, It’s Real (and Amazing)
Learn the truth about female ejaculation in this sex-positive blog from Nina Hartley. Explore the anatomy, science, and techniques behind squirting and discover why emotional release and letting go are powerful parts of sexual wellness.
Myths About Wetness and Arousal: Let’s Clear the Confusion
This sex-positive guide breaks down the myths about lubrication, arousal, and vaginal dryness. Learn why wetness does not equal consent, what affects natural lubrication, and how to support your sexual wellness with communication, consent, and lube.
How to Talk to Your Partner About Wanting More
Learn how to express your needs and desires in a relationship with honesty and care. This sex-positive guide from Nina Hartley offers practical communication tips and loving scripts to help you talk to your partner about wanting more connection, intimacy, or exploration.
Sex Magic Is Real
Discover the power of sex magic in this beginner-friendly guide by Nina Hartley. Learn how to use self-pleasure and intention to manifest change, deepen connection, and explore spiritual eroticism through orgasm and energy work.
April’s Erotic Reading List
Explore this curated erotic reading list from Nina Hartley featuring sex-positive, educational, and pleasure-centered books. Learn about self-pleasure, anal play, fantasy, and female anatomy through titles that will arouse and inform.
Fat, Queer, Aging, and Sexy: Yes, You Belong Here
This inclusive and body-positive blog invites fat, queer, aging, and nonconforming bodies back into the conversation about sex. Learn how to reclaim your erotic power, no matter your size, age, gender identity, or ability.
Why We Cry After Sex (And Other Orgasmic Emotions)
Crying after sex is more common than you think. This blog explores why it happens, what it means, and how to honor the emotional side of orgasm through aftercare and self-compassion.
Ask Nina: I’ve Never Squirted — Is Something Wrong With Me
Nina Hartley answers the common question: I have never squirting — is something wrong with me? Learn the truth about female ejaculation, pleasure, and why not squirting is perfectly normal. This empowering sex advice offers reassurance, education, and freedom from performance pressure.
The Ultimate Lube Guide: Water vs. Silicone vs. Hybrid
Explore the differences between water-based, silicone, and hybrid lubricants in this ultimate lube guide by Nina Hartley. Learn how to choose the right personal lubricant for solo play, partnered sex, anal exploration, and sensitive skin.