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What Is the Urethral Sponge, and Why Should I Care

Discover the truth about the urethral sponge, often known as the G-spot. Learn where it is, how to stimulate it, and how this internal pleasure zone can lead to deeper orgasms, emotional release, and female ejaculation. This guide offers anatomy, technique, and sex advice for vulva-owners and their lovers.

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Female Ejaculation: Yes, It’s Real (and Amazing)

Learn the truth about female ejaculation in this sex-positive blog from Nina Hartley. Explore the anatomy, science, and techniques behind squirting and discover why emotional release and letting go are powerful parts of sexual wellness.

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Myths About Wetness and Arousal: Let’s Clear the Confusion

This sex-positive guide breaks down the myths about lubrication, arousal, and vaginal dryness. Learn why wetness does not equal consent, what affects natural lubrication, and how to support your sexual wellness with communication, consent, and lube.

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Wanting More

Learn how to express your needs and desires in a relationship with honesty and care. This sex-positive guide from Nina Hartley offers practical communication tips and loving scripts to help you talk to your partner about wanting more connection, intimacy, or exploration.

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Sex Magic Is Real

Discover the power of sex magic in this beginner-friendly guide by Nina Hartley. Learn how to use self-pleasure and intention to manifest change, deepen connection, and explore spiritual eroticism through orgasm and energy work.

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April’s Erotic Reading List

Explore this curated erotic reading list from Nina Hartley featuring sex-positive, educational, and pleasure-centered books. Learn about self-pleasure, anal play, fantasy, and female anatomy through titles that will arouse and inform.

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Fat, Queer, Aging, and Sexy: Yes, You Belong Here

 This inclusive and body-positive blog invites fat, queer, aging, and nonconforming bodies back into the conversation about sex. Learn how to reclaim your erotic power, no matter your size, age, gender identity, or ability.

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Ask Nina: I’ve Never Squirted — Is Something Wrong With Me

Nina Hartley answers the common question: I have never squirting — is something wrong with me? Learn the truth about female ejaculation, pleasure, and why not squirting is perfectly normal. This empowering sex advice offers reassurance, education, and freedom from performance pressure.

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The Ultimate Lube Guide: Water vs. Silicone vs. Hybrid

Explore the differences between water-based, silicone, and hybrid lubricants in this ultimate lube guide by Nina Hartley. Learn how to choose the right personal lubricant for solo play, partnered sex, anal exploration, and sensitive skin.

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