Welcome to The Hartley Haven

For decades, Nina has inspired, educated, and held space for people who wanted to feel more — more pleasure, more confidence, more connection.

Now, for the first time, Nina is creating a private sanctuary online.
A home where her true fans can gather.
A place where you can explore Nina’s wisdom, humor, sensuality, and guidance — safely and intimately.

The Hartley Haven will open soon with exclusive membership tiers, offering everything from personal coaching sessions to playful community spaces to 24/7 Nina-bot support.
And yes — some lucky members will even have one-on-one time with Nina herself.

No algorithms.
No strangers pretending to be her.
Just Nina. Just real.

Ask Nina- Get Real Answers

I AM NOT A THERAPIST

If you're dealing with mental health struggles, trauma, substance abuse, or serious relationship conflict, I strongly encourage you to seek professional, licensed support first. Your well-being always comes first, and I’ll be here whenever you're ready to explore the next steps in your sexual journey.

JOIN THE CONVERSATION

I want my advice to be more accessible than ever, which is why I’ve created a dedicated members' space where you can ask questions, get personal responses, and join an ongoing conversation about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.

If you’re ready to take charge of your pleasure, ask your question and let’s start the conversation. Join today, and let’s explore together!

BRING YOUR IDEAS TO LIFE

I bring decades of experience as a nurse, educator, performer, and advocate for sex-positive, shame-free exploration. Whether you’re new to this journey or have been searching for clarity, I offer practical, real-world insights that can help you:

  • Understand your body and desires with confidence

  • Communicate better with partners

  • Navigate pleasure, connection, and boundaries

  • Explore sexuality in a way that feels right for you

Over the years, I’ve been physically and emotionally intimate—from eye-gazing to full-on sex—with thousands of people of all orientations, abilities, and experiences. Nothing shocks me, nothing embarrasses me—so ask away!