From $5,000 for domestic engagements.
Ms. Hartley has great rapport with young adults. In all of her University lectures she performs the magic trick of delivering vital, useful information about sex, sexuality and sexual expression in such a way that the students laugh as they learn. The lessons imparted are practical, universal and attainable. The students are always happy to have her back.
From $15,000 for Domestic Bookings
(plus first-class travel and accommodations)
Nina Hartley brings a rare and powerful combination of experience, intellect, and humor to the stage. Drawing from her decades-long career as both a registered nurse and one of the most iconic figures in adult entertainment, Ms. Hartley offers a bold and refreshing perspective on the true meaning of confidence — and how cultivating it can lead to greater personal and professional success.
Whether speaking to corporate audiences, academic groups, or specialized conferences, Nina delivers grounded, insightful, and unforgettable talks that challenge assumptions and uplift listeners.
Topics Often Include:
The link between embodiment and empowerment
Confidence as a skill, not a personality trait
How authenticity impacts workplace leadership
Boundaries, consent, and communication in professional environments
Booking Details:
Fees begin at $15,000 for domestic engagements
Client is responsible for all first-class travel, accommodations, and ground transportation
Custom keynotes or Q&A formats available by request
Virtual speaking options available at a different rate
With her signature mix of warmth, wisdom, and wit, Nina doesn’t just speak — she connects. Your audience will leave not only informed, but inspired.


Looking for some one-on-one time to pick my brain, ask real questions, and share a delicious meal together? Lunch with Nina is your chance to sit down face-to-face with me for 90 minutes of open, honest conversation — about sex, life, love, aging, performance, porn, pleasure, or whatever is on your heart.
Here’s what you’re getting:
90 minutes of in-person connection in Los Angeles
Your chance to ask me anything — truly, anything
My full attention, experience, humor, and heart
A relaxed, real-life conversation with a living legend
You buy lunch. No alcohol. No exceptions.
This is not a date, a fantasy, or a flirtation. This is respectful, intentional time with Nina — wisdom, wit, and warmth included.
Only lunch. Absolutely nothing more.
Let’s share a meal and a meaningful moment. I look forward to meeting you.