Hi there.

If you’ve found your way here, we already have something in common: a curiosity about sex, sexuality, and self-expression. Whether you’re just starting to explore or have been on this journey for years, this space is for everyone—because pleasure, confidence, and connection belong to all of us.

For over four decades, I’ve dedicated my life to sex education, advocacy, and empowerment. From my early days as a nurse to my lifelong work as a performer, writer, and educator, my goal has always been the same: to create a space where people can learn, ask questions, and embrace their sexuality free of shame.

I believe that sexuality should be a source of joy, not confusion or pain. Too many of us grow up in a world that teaches fear, guilt, or embarrassment around desire. I’m here to offer the opposite—a place of knowledge, openness, and support.

This new site is designed to make my advice and insights more accessible than ever. Whether you’re looking for guidance on relationships, intimacy, communication, or just want to deepen your understanding of pleasure, I’m here for you. Ask me anything. There’s no judgment—only real talk, real experience, and real support.

I stand by a simple belief: Consenting adults should be free to explore and enjoy their sexuality in ways that feel right for them. My mission is to help you feel at home in your own body, confident in your desires, and empowered to pursue pleasure on your own terms.

So, welcome. Stay, explore, ask, and most of all—enjoy.

With love,
Nina Hartley®