Nina Hartley®

Lecturer & Educator

Welcome to My Online World

Hi there.

If you’ve found your way here, we already have something in common: a curiosity about sex, sexuality, and self-expression. Whether you’re just starting to explore or have been on this journey for years, this space is for everyone—because pleasure, confidence, and connection belong to all of us.

For over four decades, I’ve dedicated my life to sex education, advocacy, and empowerment. From my early days as a nurse to my lifelong work as a performer, writer, and educator, my goal has always been the same: to create a space where people can learn, ask questions, and embrace their sexuality free of shame.

I believe that sexuality should be a source of joy, not confusion or pain. Too many of us grow up in a world that teaches fear, guilt, or embarrassment around desire. I’m here to offer the opposite—a place of knowledge, openness, and support.

This new site is designed to make my advice and insights more accessible than ever. Whether you’re looking for guidance on relationships, intimacy, communication, or just want to deepen your understanding of pleasure, I’m here for you. Ask me anything. There’s no judgment—only real talk, real experience, and real support.

I stand by a simple belief: Consenting adults should be free to explore and enjoy their sexuality in ways that feel right for them. My mission is to help you feel at home in your own body, confident in your desires, and empowered to pursue pleasure on your own terms.

So, welcome. Stay, explore, ask, and most of all—enjoy.

With love,
Nina Hartley®

Featured
Lunch with Nina
Lunch with Nina
$2,500.00

Looking for some one-on-one time to pick my brain, ask real questions, and share a delicious meal together? Lunch with Nina is your chance to sit down face-to-face with me for 90 minutes of open, honest conversation — about sex, life, love, aging, performance, porn, pleasure, or whatever is on your heart.

Here’s what you’re getting:

  • 90 minutes of in-person connection in Los Angeles

  • Your chance to ask me anything — truly, anything

  • My full attention, experience, humor, and heart

  • A relaxed, real-life conversation with a living legend

You buy lunch. No alcohol. No exceptions.
This is not a date, a fantasy, or a flirtation. This is respectful, intentional time with Nina — wisdom, wit, and warmth included.

Only lunch. Absolutely nothing more.

Let’s share a meal and a meaningful moment. I look forward to meeting you.

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University Lectures
University Lectures
$5,000.00

From $5,000 for domestic engagements.

Ms. Hartley has great rapport with young adults. In all of her University lectures she performs the magic trick of delivering vital, useful information about sex, sexuality and sexual expression in such a way that the students laugh as they learn. The lessons imparted are practical, universal and attainable. The students are always happy to have her back.

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Executive Retreat
Executive Retreat
$15,000.00

From $15,000 for Domestic Bookings
(plus first-class travel and accommodations)

Nina Hartley brings a rare and powerful combination of experience, intellect, and humor to the stage. Drawing from her decades-long career as both a registered nurse and one of the most iconic figures in adult entertainment, Ms. Hartley offers a bold and refreshing perspective on the true meaning of confidence — and how cultivating it can lead to greater personal and professional success.

Whether speaking to corporate audiences, academic groups, or specialized conferences, Nina delivers grounded, insightful, and unforgettable talks that challenge assumptions and uplift listeners.

Topics Often Include:

  • The link between embodiment and empowerment

  • Confidence as a skill, not a personality trait

  • How authenticity impacts workplace leadership

  • Boundaries, consent, and communication in professional environments

Booking Details:

  • Fees begin at $15,000 for domestic engagements

  • Client is responsible for all first-class travel, accommodations, and ground transportation

  • Custom keynotes or Q&A formats available by request

  • Virtual speaking options available at a different rate

With her signature mix of warmth, wisdom, and wit, Nina doesn’t just speak — she connects. Your audience will leave not only informed, but inspired.

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