What is your relationship worth? Sexual issues are often at the heart of a couple’s tensions. Hearing the perspective of someone with my unique experience can help. I want every couple to succeed. Mutually enjoyable sex is a big part of that, and that is my wheelhouse.
I have absolutely no judgment regarding any consensual sexual behavior. Neither you nor your partner can want, or do, anything that will disgust me, shock me, make me mad or think less of you. We can want anything. We just can’t have everything we want. We get only that which we negotiate fully and fairly, and we can’t do that if we think our desires (not our actions) are somehow Not Okay.
There are no wrong thoughts or desires, only wrong action. Sex is, first and foremost, a set of behaviors, motivated by a wide range of emotions. If you have a desire that you would like to explore but haven’t been able to articulate, I can help with that conversation. If your partner has a desire that triggers negative emotions, I’m here to help ease your fears and work with you to find a compromise with which each can live and thrive.
A couple’s sexual life together is theirs alone. No one else has to know and no one else’s opinion matters but the people involved. This is a world you are “building to suit,” a country of two. Make it what you need.