"There are no wrong thoughts, only wrong actions." 

I clearly recall in second grade, as I was standing in line to go into class, having the thought, “There is no God and it’s all ridiculous.”

Perhaps you’ll tear up or feel your face flush with anger shame or sudden recognition. Your stomach may start to ache or your breathing become shallow and fast.

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This transparency makes a fan as vulnerable as a newborn. It is healing to me to practice compassion when confronted with such primal feelings and to reflect back to these men a healthier and saner sexuality

Until we can head off angry behavior at the pass, we’ll often be left to deal with the aftermath of a blowup. When this happens try to get a little distance from the incident with two or three breaths and then…